Every L Podcast
Real people share their personal stories of unexpected setbacks and disappointments in their lives. Although these experiences may have initially felt like losses, they reflect on the valuable lessons and growth gained from those challenging moments.
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Monday May 12, 2025
Monday May 12, 2025
In this episode I sat down with my dear friend and remarkable human being, Cal-I, for an honest and heartfelt conversation. This episode is for anyone navigating rejection, career pivots, or finding the courage to chase after a long-suppressed dream. Here are three standout topics we covered that really struck a chord:
1. The Challenge of Career Change and Rejection2. The Power of Having a Supportive Partner3. Reframing the “L”
It’s the classic “every L is a lesson, not a loss.” Cal-I unpacked how that difficult experience of rejection didn’t signal the end but rather the beginning of deeper self-discovery, hard work, and resilience. He spoke about the dangers of seeking validation from industries or institutions and instead championing the slog of incremental growth (“small steps, big moves”). The conversation also spotlighted the importance of not comparing your journey to others’, and how even the most multifaceted, high-achieving people wrestle with imposter syndrome and doubt.
Want to Hear More? Listen to this truly inspiring episode to see how small pivots, an honest support system, and relentless faith in yourself can transform failure into growth. You’ll also hear about Cal-I’s headline-grabbing one-man show "No More Mr Nice Guy", lessons learned from touring, and insights on life after letting go of old identities.
Connect & Get Involved: Show Cal-I some love on Instagram at @caljonel and check out his and his wife’s amazing educational initiative at love-literacy.com.
More about Cal-I
Cal-I Jonel, an East London-born theatremaker and award-winning actor, began his artistic journey through community-based youth work, creating and directing plays. Alongside a decade-long career as a qualified teacher, he also ventured into music as a singer-songwriter and composer. Jonel has received commissions from Queen’s Theatre and Talawa Theatre, and his second full-length play was shortlisted for the Soho Theatre Tony Craze Award, earning ‘Highly Commended’ status. Recently, he premiered and toured his debut one-man, gig-theatre piece, “No More Mr Nice Guy,” to 5-star reviews, also receiving an OFFIE nomination.
Cal-I is a devoted husband and father or three. He hopes to encourage his children, and others, to pursue their dreams and live a life that is full.
Monday Sep 02, 2024
Monday Sep 02, 2024
In this deeply moving episode, we sit down with Revd Geoff Clarke, a man who has faced betrayal, heartache, and depression, yet emerged with hope, resilience, and unwavering faith. Here are three compelling topics we delve into during our conversation:
1. Betrayal and Emotional Turmoil2. The Impact of Faith and Community Support 3. The Road to Resilience and Purpose
If Geoff's story resonated with you or if you know someone going through similar struggles, please share this episode. Your support can make a difference in someone’s life. And remember, even in the toughest times, there’s a community around you ready to help.
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More about Revd Geoff Clarke:
Born in Stratford to parents David and Ivy Clarke. I lived there till I was 5, spent my junior school years in Kent and my senior school years in Hertfordshire. One of four children. Left school at 16 went to work in the City for a Stock Exchange firm and spent most of my working life in that industry. Became a Christian when I was 29 and had the call to Ordained Ministry when I was 58. I serve God in the church I have attended since finding my faith. I have been married twice, have 2 children and 3 stepchildren and I have 7 grandchildren. God has blessed me in many ways.
Saturday Aug 31, 2024
Saturday Aug 31, 2024
The full episode goes live on Monday 2nd September 2024 at 7am BST
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Wednesday May 29, 2024
Monday Nov 27, 2023
Monday Nov 27, 2023
Amit Kalley is our latest guest and delves into his deeply personal topics of loss, overcoming challenges, and finding strength. Amit shares his experiences of dealing with his mother's battle with ovarian cancer and the premature birth of his daughter. Here are three interesting topics covered in this heartfelt and thought-provoking conversation:
1️⃣ The Power of Support and Family2️⃣ Coping with Loss and Grief3️⃣ Creating a Lasting Legacy
As you reflect on this episode, take a moment to examine your own experiences with loss and the challenges you have faced. How have they shaped you? Has there been someone who has provided unwavering support? If so, reach out to that individual and tell them. Give them their flowers while they are living and rather than on their tombstone.
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More about Amit:
Amit is Co-Founder of For Working Parents, a company that helps organisations become more inclusive for their working parents. A former Deputy Headteacher, Amit uses his experience and his training as an ICF Coach to create an environment in the workplace that is more empathetic and human and where parents can thrive both at work and at home. In addition to running coaching sessions and parental webinars, Amit also speaks publicly about his own personal story, having lost a parent and then becoming a parent to a daughter born with three holes in her heart.
Facebook: @forworkingparentsInstagram: @forworkingparentsLinkedIn: @AmitSinghKalleyTikTok: @kalleycoachingPodcast: What Do Parents Know?Website: www.forworkingparents.com
Charity mentioned in episode: https://targetovariancancer.org.uk/
Friday Nov 24, 2023
Friday Nov 24, 2023
The full episode goes live on Monday 27th November 2023 at 7am GMT
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Monday Nov 20, 2023
Monday Nov 20, 2023
Jill is our latest guest who opens up about her journey of healing and finding liberation from shame. Here are three interesting topics we covered:
1️⃣ From Darkness to Purpose2️⃣ Finding Light and Love3️⃣ Breaking the Barriers of Shame
I applaud Jill for using her experiences to shine a light on such an important topic and if you want to learn more about her journey and find support, be sure to visit her website and check out her book, "Liberated: Releasing the Dark Cloud of Shame."
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More about Jill:
Jill Schultz is a disrupter, serial entrepreneur, author, and motivational speaker. Jill’s mission is to help release people from shame. Her own experience of experimenting with other children at a young age because of her own sexual trauma has led her to speak out on this taboo topic and help anyone who has a secret or has felt shame of any kind to create a life of love, success, and abundance.
Here are some helpful links too:
Book: https://www.jilleschultz.com/bookWebsite: https://www.jilleschultz.comSeven Critical Steps to Heal from Secret: https://unshamed.live/7CriticalStepstoHealfromSecretUncover your shame worksheet: https://unshamed.live/UncoverYourShameFacebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/livingunshamed/Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/jilleschultzInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jilleschultz11/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jill-schultz-30413514/
Friday Nov 17, 2023
Friday Nov 17, 2023
The full episode goes live on Monday 20th November 2023 at 7am GMT
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Monday Nov 06, 2023
Monday Nov 06, 2023
In this episode, I am joined by Kaylee Grace. During this episode we delve into the importance of understanding our internal world, the power of self-reflection, and the transformative journey towards self-acceptance. Kaylee's story is one of resilience, healing, and prioritising personal growth to benefit herself and her daughter.Here are 3 topics you’ll hear us cover amongst others:1: Understanding the Importance of the Internal World2: The Impact of Childhood Experiences3: Overcoming Addictions and Negative Voices
Get ready to deep dive into the childhood of Kaylee which will, no doubt, make you question what you were exposed to growing up and reflect on your own actions towards family members.Follow me on Instagram: @EveryLPodcast for exclusive content and please RATE and review on the platform you are listening on
More about Kaylee:
After 30 years of struggling with depression, panic attacks and just making bad decisions and failing a lot, Kaylee Grace dedicated her life to figuring out why she was the way she was. Now she shares this journey with such passion and enthusiasm it makes people walk away feeling inspired to create their own life in a far better way. Visit her website to keep up with what she is doing and check out her podcast on YouTube for more of her content
Website: Lovecreatesfreedom.comPodcast: https://www.youtube.com/@KayleeGrace
Friday Nov 03, 2023
Friday Nov 03, 2023
The full episode goes live on Monday 6th November 2023 at 7am GMT
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Why was this created?
In 2013 I went through a very tough time with work and spiralled into depression. I shut myself away from everything and every one after being falsely accused and shunned by those pending investigation. How I was impacted my relationship with my wife, mum and anyone else who cared for me but I didn't care. I was ok and didn't see how this situation was 1) fair when I didn' do anything and 2) how my life would be better after this.
I didn't look for anything like this but I know that if I heard a series of stories from other people's lives where things didn't go as intended and what the outcome was it would have helped me to have faith that things will work out in the end. So fast forward to 2022 when I was months away from being a dad to twins (my 2nd and 3rd child) I launched this podcast which I hope will provide hope, and encourage and remove the stigma around topics that are often described as taboo.
Just because we are not in a position to take a picture and share it on social because its not exciting at the moment or we are not in a great place doesn't mean we are losing at life when in most cases it is a part of the process. Your right now is not your forever and nothing about a caterpillar tells you it's going to be a butterfly.